4 Steps to Handle Family Members Who Don’t Help with the Bills

Do You Have Family Living in Your Property Without Helping with the Bills?

We understand how frustrating that can be!

You’re trying to be generous, kind, and selfless, yet your family doesn’t even offer to help with the bills—or if they do, they don’t follow through.

At Momentum Offers, we've encountered many people in the same situation as you.

Here are 4 steps you can take to address this issue:

  1. Create a Contractual Agreement: Mixing business and family can be tricky. When you’re paying the mortgage on a house where family members live, it can lead to resentment and frustration. A contract can clarify expectations, including clauses that require family members to contribute (e.g., keeping the house clean, paying for damages, doing yard work).

  2. Have an Intervention: If things have gotten really bad, it might be time for a serious conversation with your family. Be honest and explain that you can’t afford to pay the mortgage alone while they live there. A straightforward discussion can often lead to reasonable solutions.

  3. Offer a Grace Period: If you need your family to start contributing but want to be considerate, offer a grace period. Let them know they have two more months of free living, after which they need to start contributing a certain percentage of the monthly payments or find somewhere else to live.

  4. Sell the Home: If the situation has been going on for too long, selling the property might be the best solution. Instead of dealing with the hassle of finding an agent, making repairs, and listing on the MLS, consider selling to a professional home buyer like us. We can close within just two weeks and pay cash for your property. If you’re interested, give us a call at (904) 570-1216!

Taking these steps can help you handle the situation and find a resolution that works for everyone involved.

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